Surviving Young Adulthood

When we take trips as a youth group, we have a tradition of playing the game of Life. I have the game on my iPad, and we pass it around the vehicle. We usually have a lot of fun and a lot of laughs. Toward the beginning of the game, you have to pick the college path or the career path. I always pick the college path, but it never guarantees me a win. Right now, some of you are in that position in real life. You're deciding the next steps to take. The only thing is, this life is not a game. Whichever decision you choose for your life, whether college or a career, there are a couple of realities that are crucial for you to recognize as you take the steps toward adulthood. 

    One of the first realities you will have to face is that the next couple years of your life really matter. Culture would tell you that this “new period is a chance for young people to savor the pleasures of irresponsibility, search their souls and choose their life paths.” This is not the truth. The Word of God reminds us of the brevity of our lives (James 4:14). During the next few years make Psalm 90:12 a continual personal prayer. “So teach us to number our days, that we may apply our hearts unto wisdom.” Take the advice of Solomon, the wisest man to live. “Remember now thy Creator in the days of thy youth, while the evil days come not, nor the years draw nigh, when thou shalt say, I have no pleasure in them…” (Ecclesiastes 12:1) There will be a lot of issues and situations to figure out. There will be moments of deep discouragement and great joy, but as you go forward make the early adult years of your life count.

    The next reality may seem basic, but it is another imperative reality. You’re relationship with God matters. I know this sounds like elementary Sunday School stuff, but it is true. A vibrant relationship with God is essential. The next phase of your life will be filled with unknowns. What will I do with my life? Who will I marry? Does God want me to go to college? In the middle of all these intimidating questions and new discoveries, you need an authentic relationship with God. God gives us an amazing promise in Psalm 32:8. “I will instruct thee and teach thee in the way which thou shalt go: I will guide thee with mine eye.” But it requires me to be close to Him. (James 4:8) If you already have a wonderful walk with God, Praise the Lord! You’re going to need Him. Understand you will not accomplish anything with an eternal value without Him.

    As you consider your relationship with Christ, you need to face another realty. This reality is that your influences will help build you or will help break you. Whether you know it or not, you are at an impressionable time in life. So you must actively protect your heart from wrong influences (Proverbs 4:23). This is why you must be in God’s Word daily, developing a walk with Him. If you believe that your influences don’t matter, please listen to Paul’s plea to the church in Corinth. “Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners.” (1 Corinthians 15:33) Don’t be tricked in to believing that worthless or wicked habits or behaviors will not affect you. The reality is your influences will play a large part in who you become.

    The next reality you must deal with is that hard times are on the horizon. They may be the effect of decisions that you make or that others have made for you. Some of the difficulties may be out of your control, but God is in control. This is why you must understand that the coming years are important moments for God to mold you into the masterpiece He desires for you to be. Christ warned, “In the world ye shall have tribulation.” But than He encourages with this, “but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.” (John 16:33) In seasons of hurt, confusion, and despair, resolve to be like Paul and discover God’s strength in the middle of your weakness (2 Corinthians12:10). Those are the moments where God is working in you to do great things.

    The last reality is the one you cannot lose sight of. It will help you through some of the difficult times. It is simply this. You are where you are because someone cared for you! Some of you are smart, athletic, funny, or talented in other areas, but you didn’t pull yourself up by your own boot straps as the old saying goes. First, you have a wonderful heavenly Father who loves you and has shown you grace and mercy. “Herein is love, not that we loved God, but that he loved us, and sent his Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” (1 John 4:10) (John 3:16; Romans 5:8) We all have a Savior that loved us, but we also have individuals that have helped or even sacrificed to move you forward. Don’t forget about your parents, the teachers, the spiritual leaders, and godly friends that have helped you to succeed. Take heed to Paul’s advice to Timothy, “But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them.” (2 Timothy 3:14) Don’t forget that you are not alone. 

    May God bless you as you follow Him into the next exciting steps in your journey of life! Stay faithful!

What is the correct answer?

Five Powerful Questions to Ask Yourself Before Making A Decision

This summer we have discussed many difficult issues. We have looked at some of the issues that you are challenged with daily or will be challenged with sometime in your life. Some of the issues are clearly addressed in the Word of God, while others are established by biblical principles. In Psalm 73 Asaph is close to making some unwise decisions. In fact in verse 2, he confessed “my feet were almost gone; my steps had well nigh slipped.” How do we make decisions and come to biblical conclusions? Here are some powerful questions that can be used to guide your decision making process from Psalm 73.

Question #1. Am I confident that God is good, and that His way is best?

This may seem like a strange question to ask. Is God good? What does that have to do with making a decision in life? Let’s ask it this way; do we actually believe God and His plans are the best for us? Asaph starts off Psalm 73 with the statement that his decision to follow the Lord is based on his conclusion that God is good. If we have not concluded that God is just and right and His ways are best, we will experience difficulty wholly following God’s plan. Jesus, our great example, was fully surrendered to God’s plan for His life. This allowed Jesus to make great but difficult decisions for His life. It even allowed Him to make the decision to die on a cross. 

Philippians 2:5-8

Let this mind be in you, which was also in Christ Jesus: Who, being in the form of God, thought it not robbery to be equal with God: But made himself of no reputation, and took upon him the form of a servant, and was made in the likeness of men: And being found in fashion as a man, he humbled himself, and became obedient unto death, even the death of the cross.

The Christian that is confident that God’s way is best, will be content with any decision God leads them to, because they are persuaded that God is good and His way is best. 

Question #2. What is influencing my decision?

The second question requires personal honesty. What is influencing the decision or my conclusion?  Asaph acknowledged in Psalm 73:3 that the influence of the decisions he was about to make. Asaph said “ I was envious at the foolish, when I saw the prosperity of the wicked.” He was not being influenced by biblical truth but personal observation. Answering this question correctly requires the light of God’s Word and the discernment of the Holy Spirit to reveal our true heart. As we have discussed difficult topics this summer, if we are honest, many of are decisions are based on cultural influences more than biblical influences. Psalms 1 promises blessing to the individual that is controlled by God’s Word. 

Psalm 1:1-3

Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor standeth in the way of sinners, nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law doth he meditate day and night.And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water, that bringeth forth his fruit in his season; his leaf also shall not wither; and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.

So as we determine the paths we take in life, we must ask ourselves what is the compelling force behind our decisions. Just a hint, it should be the Word of God!

Question #3. Where will I end up?

After Asaph reveals the thoughts behind the conclusion he was forming in his mind, he was made aware of the outcome of this decision. In verse 17, he says “…I went into the sanctuary of God; then understood I their end. Surely thou didst set them in slippery places: thou castedst them down into destruction. How are they brought into desolation, as in a moment!…"  Ask yourself, If I make this decision where will I be next week, month, or even years from now. Will it be a decision that causes regret or a life of blessing. Esau should have asked this question in Genesis 25. 

Genesis 25:29-34 

And Jacob sod pottage: and Esau came from the field, and he was faint: And Esau said to Jacob, Feed me, I pray thee, with that same red pottage; for I am faint: therefore was his name called Edom. And Jacob said, Sell me this day thy birthright. And Esau said, Behold, I am at the point to die: and what profit shall this birthright do to me?And Jacob said, Swear to me this day; and he sware unto him: and he sold his birthright unto Jacob. Then Jacob gave Esau bread and pottage of lentiles; and he did eat and drink, and rose up, and went his way: thus Esau despised his birthright.

Esau sold his future for food, because he made a decision based on the immediate. 

Question #4. Have I obtained godly counsel?

Before we make any decision, we should always consult God’s Word and spend time seeking God’s direction in prayer (Philippians 4:6-7). Asaph learned the importance of godly counsel. In fact, he made a decision to be guided by God’s counsel. Asaph told the Lord, “Nevertheless I am continually with thee: thou hast holden me by my right hand.Thou shalt guide me with thy counsel, and afterward receive me to glory.” (Psalm 73:23-24) We can learn a great lesson from Rehoboam in 1 Kings 12. Rehoboam chose the counsel of the current culture and made a wrong decision. 

1 Kings 12:3-11

…And Jeroboam and all the congregation of Israel came, and spake unto Rehoboam, saying, Thy father made our yoke grievous: now therefore make thou the grievous service of thy father, and his heavy yoke which he put upon us, lighter, and we will serve thee.And he said unto them, Depart yet for three days, then come again to me. And the people departed. And king Rehoboam consulted with the old men, that stood before Solomon his father while he yet lived, and said, How do ye advise that I may answer this people?And they spake unto him, saying, If thou wilt be a servant unto this people this day, and wilt serve them, and answer them, and speak good words to them, then they will be thy servants for ever. But he forsook the counsel of the old men, which they had given him, and consulted with the young men that were grown up with him, and which stood before him: And he said unto them, What counsel give ye that we may answer this people, who have spoken to me, saying, Make the yoke which thy father did put upon us lighter?And the young men that were grown up with him spake unto him, saying, Thus shalt thou speak unto this people that spake unto thee, saying, Thy father made our yoke heavy, but make thou it lighter unto us; thus shalt thou say unto them, My little finger shall be thicker than my father's loins.And now whereas my father did lade you with a heavy yoke, I will add to your yoke: my father hath chastised you with whips, but I will chastise you with scorpions.

Take the initiative to ask counsel of people that are walking according to God’s Word whether it is a parent, teacher, pastor, or godly mentor. Seek out God’s wisdom. 

Question #5. Am I actively drawing close to God?

We can never make a decision about the will of God if we are not nurturing our walk with God. It is amazing how many people “know” God’s will, but they haven’t spent any time in His Word. Many times we fit Jesus’ description of the Pharisees.

Matthew 15:8

This people draweth nigh unto me with their mouth, and honoureth me with their lips; but their heart is far from me.

A critical question to ask yourself everyday is, “Am I walking with Christ today? Am I walking close enough to hear His voice through His Word and feel His leading by His Spirit." Asaph says in the last verse of Psalm 73, “…It is good for me to draw near to God…” (Psalm 73:28) I think that is the best decision any believer will make as they seek God’s wisdom for decisions.

A Challenge to the Class of 2014

Three Life Lessons for the Class of 2014

I'm so excited for you all the Class of 2014. I can't wait to see what God is going to do in and through you guys. I want to challenge you as you move forward with three life lessons that I think will be important in the coming years. 

Invest your life in things that will last!

For you, the Class of 2014, life is just beginning. The last few years have been preparation for this journey. There are people that have invested in you. Your parents, teachers, and other leaders have poured into your lives. Now, I want to challenge you to invest your life into something that will last for eternity. Most of you guys will go to college or find employment. You’ll look for a spouse, career, or other opportunities. Jesus tells us “Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: But lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal…” (Matthew 6:19-20) Paul advises “Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap. For he that soweth to his flesh shall of the flesh reap corruption; but he that soweth to the Spirit shall of the Spirit reap life everlasting.” (Galatians 6:7-8) This class of seniors has amazing potential! I pray that you guys will use that potential for God’s glory! C T Studd summed it up, when he wrote:

Give me Father, a purpose deep,

In joy or sorrow Thy word to keep;

Faithful and true what e'er the strife,

Pleasing Thee in my daily life;

Only one life, 'twill soon be past,

Only what's done for Christ will last.

 

Identify your influences!

The next few years of your life are going to be pivotal. You are going to be making a lot of major decisions that will affect your life. As you make these decisions and take these steps, you need to be following truth. Solomon gives us amazing advice about this stage in your life. “Ponder the path of thy feet, and let all thy ways be established.” (Proverbs 4:26) There are going to be a myriad of people and things that will have influence on you in the next few years. There will be professors, roommates, friends, music, movies, and a million other things. I want to challenge you to identify the influences in your life. If they are godly influences, keep them. If they are distracting you, dispose of them. The difficulty is that these influences may deceive you. They may appear to be good or right, but they may lead to destruction. “There is a way that seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” (Proverbs 16:25) This discernment must come from God and His Word. I encourage you to spend time in the Word of God and prayer, not as a magical ritual, but because you need wisdom. David understood this when he penned Psalm 119:130. “The entrance of thy words giveth light; it giveth understanding unto the simple.” James teaches us that, “If any of you lack wisdom, let him ask of God, that giveth to all men liberally, and upbraideth not; and it shall be given him.” (James 1:5) As you make the leap into adulthood, identify every influence! (Take some time to read Psalm 1!)

Impact the World for Christ!

After Jesus’ resurrection and before His ascension, Jesus told his group of disciples “Go ye into all the world, and preach the gospel to every creature.” (Mark 16:15) Jesus was telling a handful of His followers to make a difference in the word! These individuals did not have the internet, cell phones, or social media! They went out in the power of God, and in Acts 17, they are accused of “turning the world upside-down.” Class of 2014, you are the light of the world! Jesus said so in Matthew 5:14-16! “Ye are the light of the world. A city that is set on an hill cannot be hid. Neither do men light a candle, and put it under a bushel, but on a candlestick; and it giveth light unto all that are in the house. Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” God did not give you abilities and talents for you to hide them under the basket of selfishness, but that you could be a shining light in dark world to bring glory and honor to God. D L Moody was challenged by the statement: “The world has yet to see what God can do with and for and through and in and by the man who is fully and wholly consecrated to Him. . . .”  His response “I will try my utmost to be that man.” Class of 2014, make an impact on the world!

Points to Ponder for Proper Teen Camp Preparedness

Three thoughts to help you as you prepare for camp:

Pack

I know you probably haven't even started thinking about this part yet, but it might make your camp week smoother if you pack. (Don't start now, finish reading this first.) Make sure you pack everything you need in the smallest suitcase possible! Okay, maybe not the smallest suitcase, but remember there is limited luggage space in the van. Wondering what you need to pack? Click here for the Wilds FAQ.

Pray

This may be one of the most neglected steps in teen camp preparation. Jeremiah 33:3 says Call unto me, and I will answer thee, and shew thee great and mighty things, which thou knowest not. I desire to see God do great and mighty things next week! Whether you are going to teen camp this week or not could you spend time in prayer for three things.

• The  Speaker - Pastor Cary Schmidt
• Your Church - Trinity Baptist Church
• Yourself  - A young person in need of spiritual revival

Take time to pray this weekend and ask God to work in your heart and life next week.

Purpose

Next week at camp, some things may happen that you do not care for. You may have _____________________________________ (fill in your own terrible tragedy that could befall you next week.)  I want to encourage you not to let those incidents keep you from having fun and/or growing spiritually. Everyone at camp is not like you (we know that if they were, the world would be a better place!) and every rule at camp is not because they dislike you. Purpose in your heart to let God work in your life next week. (Yea doubtless, and I count all things but loss for the excellency of the knowledge of Christ Jesus my Lord: for whom I have suffered the loss of all things, and do count them but dung, that I may win Christ... -Philippians 3:8)

When is it okay to disobey?

How to respond to unbiblical authority...

As we studied last night in our study of Esther, Mordecai disobeyed a command from the king to bow to Haman. The question arises, “When is it okay to disobey authority?” The only in time the Word of God that we are to disobey authority is when authority calls for us to disobey God. Romans 13 says “Let every soul be subject unto the higher powers. For there is no power but of God…”  (Romans 13:1) Though most individuals do not like to believe that authority is ordained of God, it is! God allows people to have authority and has given us authority for our protection. When that authority goes against Him, it is like a mutiny aboard a ship. The one to whom God gave authority is now acting in rebellion to Him. The only problem is the authority figure sometimes does not see it this way. So how do you respond to authority that is violating God’s Word. 

1. Scripturally

Psalms 119:160 says “Thy word is true for the beginning and everyone of the righteous judgments endureth forever.  Psalm 100:5 reminds us that God's truth “endureth to all generations.” Disobeying God given authority is a big deal. Romans 13 again says “Whosoever therefore resisteth the power, resisteth the ordinance of God: and they that resist shall receive to themselves damnation.” (Romans 13:2) So, first I have to ask myself, “How is this violating Scripture?” and ”What Scripture is it violating?” Resisting authority is not an issue of convenience or personal preference. If there is not a violation of God’s Word, my response should be to submit. 

Examples: Midwives (Exodus 1:15-17) Daniel (Daniel 1:8) Peter (Acts 5:28-29)

2. Humbly

If you have established that this is a matter of obeying God rather than men, you must oppose humbly. Resistance to authority is not a matter of pride or arrogance! Galatians 6:1 should define our spirit. “Brethren, if a man be overtaken in a fault, ye which are spiritual, restore such an one in the spirit of meekness; considering thyself, lest thou also be tempted.” Our desire should always be to see restoration to those who have gone against truth. If you read through the life of David, you can see how King Saul (David’s authority) was blatantly wrong, but David always responded in humility. The reality is we have all missed God’s standard in our lives, so when we stand against unbiblical authority, we must come humbly. (Matthew 7:3-5)

3. Prayerfully

1 Timothy 2:1-4 tells us to do something that we often fail at. “I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men; for kings, and for all that are in authority; that we may lead a quiet and peaceable life in all godliness and honesty. For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour; Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.” If you come to the point where you must Scripturally oppose authority, do it prayerfully! In fact, even if your authority is wonderful, you should pray for them! Pray that God will give authority to discern and follow the Truth. 

4. Resolutely

Disobeying authority is huge, so it must be approached Scripturally, humbly, and prayerfully. Lastly, it should be approached resolutely. Understand that disobedience always has consequences. There is a price for standing up for Biblical truth. When the religious leaders commanded the apostles to stop preaching, they obeyed God but they were still beaten. (Acts 5:29-42) Shadrach, Meshach, and Abednego are wonderful examples of this. (Daniel 3:15-20) They understood the command to worship the image violated God’s Law but decided to face the consequences whether God intervened or not. 

Obedience and authority are important principles in the Word of God. They are not invalidated by personal preferences. If there comes a time where authority is clearly violating Scripture, my challenge is to approach it Scripturally, prayerfully, humbly, and resolutely, no matter the consequences.

Practicing Personal Worship

Last night, during the evening service, we looked at what personal worship looks like. (If you missed it, you can find it here. You can also download the Worship Guide from here.) Personal worship is an integral part in the life of every believer. The difficulty is we understand the importance, but fail to practice it. Here are three simple thoughts on developing effective personal worship from our passage in Exodus 34. 

Exodus 34:1-4

And the Lord said unto Moses, Hew thee two tables of stone like unto the first: and I will write upon these tables the words that were in the first tables, which thou brakest.

And be ready in the morning, and come up in the morning unto mount Sinai, and present thyself there to me in the top of the mount.

And no man shall come up with thee, neither let any man be seen throughout all the mount; neither let the flocks nor herds feed before that mount.

And he hewed two tables of stone like unto the first; and Moses rose up early in the morning, and went up unto mount Sinai, as the Lord had commanded him, and took in his hand the two tables of stone.

1. Make personal worship a priority!

Exodus 34:2,4

And be ready in the morning, and come up in the morning unto mount Sinai, and present thyself there to me in the top of the mount… and Moses rose up early in the morning, and went up unto mount Sinai, as the Lord had commanded him, and took in his hand the two tables of stone.

Here in Exodus 34, God has given Moses an “appointment” to meet with him. Can you imagine having an appointment to meet with God alone? I’m sure that was a meeting Moses wasn’t going to miss! It was a priority. The truth is though, God does want us to meet with us. “Behold, I stand at the door, and knock: if any man hear my voice, and open the door, I will come in to him, and will sup (dine/ fellowship) with him, and he with me.” (Revelation 3:20) He desires for us to spend time worshipping Him! We simply have to make it a priority. Could you see Moses going about his day and forgetting to meet with God, because he was just too busy? Take some time to schedule an “appointment” to spend time with God. 

2. Come prepared for worship! 

Exodus 34:1-2

And the Lord said unto Moses, Hew thee two tables of stone like unto the first: and I will write upon these tables the words that were in the first tables, which thou brakest… and present thyself there to me in the top of the mount.

The second observation from this passage is that personal worship requires preparation. One of the myths of worship is that it is spontaneous. Worship requires thought and action. God tells Moses to cut out two tables of stone and bring them to the mountain in the morning. When it comes to our personal worship, do we come prepared to receive something from God? Do we have a passage to study, needs to pray for, or praises to give? Or do we simply read wherever the Bible opens, and pray for whatever happens to pop into our head in the moment? Even on a more practical level, do we take time to simply write down things God shows you about Himself in His Word? Come to God’s Word desiring to receive something from it. The Psalmist exclaims “As the hart panteth after the water brooks, so panteth my soul after thee, O God. My soul thirsteth for God, for the living God…” (Psalm 42:1-2)

3. Keep personal worship personal!

Exodus 34:3

And no man shall come up with thee, neither let any man be seen throughout all the mount; neither let the flocks nor herds feed before that mount.

The last practical tip for personal worship is to keep personal worship personal. It’s really easy in the busy lives to trade small group bible studies, family devotions, and many other wonderful corporate opportunities for personal worship. But when God met with Moses, God wanted just Moses. The same thing is true in our lives! Church, Christian school, and Bible studies are all amazing things, but we need personal one-on-one time with God. Jesus is our example. “And when He had sent the multitudes away, He (Jesus) went up into a mountain apart to pray: and when the evening was come, He was there alone. (Matthew 14:23) If Jesus needed time alone with His Father, than so do we!

I hope these three observations will help you as you begin to practice personal worship. They are not new or difficult truths, but they take faithfulness and dedication to practice them!

Where are you going to end up?

I enjoy car rides. I enjoy riding  with no destination in mind. Even as a teenager, I loved jumping into my 1986 Cressida and driving for an hour or two just for fun. (This was before ridiculously high gas prices!) I still enjoy doing it every now and then. As much as I enjoy wandering aimlessly through back country roads, I have learned that you cannot be successful in life by wandering aimlessly. A successful Christian life must be lived with purpose. Our culture deceives us into living lives with no eternal purpose. We are told to live for right now. Proverbs 14:12 says “There is a way which seemeth right unto a man, but the end thereof are the ways of death.” Can I challenge you to take some time to analyze your life from the truth of God’s Word? What are you doing to actively draw closer to God? (James 4:8) What things are pulling you away from a relationship with God? (Hebrews 12:1) How many things in your life have no eternal value? (2 Peter 3:10-11) Ask yourself some important questions. If you keep hanging out with the friends (social media or face-to-face), that you spend time with now, where will you end up? If you follow the influences (athletes, celebrities, teachers, spiritual leaders, etc) that you are actively following, where will you end up? If you keep walking with God, the way you are walking with Him today, where will you end up? I challenge you to analyze your life and adjust the things that are out of order. May we live with purpose as the Apostle Paul: Philippians 3:13-14 “Brethren, I count not myself to have apprehended: but this one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark for the prize of the high calling of God in Christ Jesus.”

Honduras - Book Summary

Book Summary 

Through Gates of Splendor

    Through Gates of Splendor is an amazing book about the life of five missionaries that gave all for the cause of Christ. Nate Saint, Roger Youderian, Ed McCully, Pete Fleming, Jim Elliot and their wives are fantastic illustrations of Christians who saw past the temporal and saw the eternal. This book is a great picture of what selfless Christianity looks like. 

     Through Gates of Splendor tells the story of a group of individuals who teamed up to reach Indians in South America. The beginning of the book gives us a glimpse into the lives of these men. The interesting thing about these individuals is that they could have been “successful” in many earthly ambitions. All five of the men involved in the mission to the Aucas were gifted individuals. These men chose to use their talents and abilities for more than just wealth or popularity. The book describes how each one of them dedicated their lives to bring honor and glory to God. 

     Another intriguing thing that is noted in the book, is how these men had a burden to share the gospel with unreached people. They pursued people groups that most people would have deemed unreachable or unnecessarily difficult. They had to learn unwritten languages and share the gospel with people who had never heard the name of Jesus. These men worked hard to figure out ways to communicate the love of Christ in anyway possible. As the book unfolds and you read of how these men figured out ways to communicate with the Aucas, Nate Saint, the pilot, worked on amazing ways to use his plane to distribute gifts and communicate with the people around him. These men and their wives gave their lives to sitting by radios, making meals, clearing trees, and flying planes in order to reach savage Indians. Sometimes we think of missionary life as 24/7 preaching and soul-winning, but we learn through the pages of this book that these missionaries lives were consumed by doing practical tasks for the purpose of reaching the South American Indians for Christ. It’s amazing to see all the hard work and daily dedication of winning indians to Christ. There is no greater display of this burden than in Nate Saints own writing.“May we who know Christ hear the cry of the damned as they hurtle headlong into the Christless night without ever a chance. May we be moved with compassion as our Lord was. May we shed tears of repentance for these we have failed to bring out of darkness. Beyond the smiling scenes of Bethlehem may we see the crushing agony of Golgotha. May God give us a new vision of His will concerning the lost and our responsibility.” 

    The conclusion of the book is probably the most familiar part of the story. Most people know of how these five inspiring missionaries were killed. The part that jumps off the pages though is the grace of God exhibited in their lives and their deaths. As you read through, you can feel their excitement as they make contact with the Aucas, but even through that excitement you can sense the caution in their writings. As the news came in about the murders of the men on the missionary team, you can see the peace of God that passeth all understanding in the behavior of the missionary wives. These women lost their family members but still made huge strides to reach the Aucas. 

    I would recommend this book to any Christian desiring to see an illustration of selfless Christianity. These families demonstrate a love for God and a dedication for his service that is not usually seen in modern Christianity.

Character Sketch

Jim Elliot

    Jim Elliot is a very intriguing individual. He and his fellow missionaries highlight the necessity for living with eternity in mind. Colossians 3:2 asserts “Set your affection on things above, not on things on the earth.” Every Christian is challenged by the Word of God to live a life that is focused on eternity. This is a trait that most of us lack. As I read this book, I was confronted by my lack of eternal vision. One of my favorite quotes by Jim Elliot in this book is in his response to those who would compel him to stay in America. Jim Elliot said, “I dare not stay home while Quichuas perish. What if the well-filled church in the homeland needs stirring? They have the Scriptures, Moses, and the prophets, and a whole lot more. Their condemnation is written on their bank books and in the dust on their Bible covers.” I think his observation of modern Christianity is very true. We fail to see the eternal needs while we chase the things of the world. I am guilty of this many times myself. Our hearts should echo the sentiments of Nate Saint. "When life's flight is over, and we unload our cargo at the other end, the fellow who got rid of unnecessary weight will have the most valuable cargo to present to the Lord.”  “Through Gates of Splendor” leaves us with an example of imperfect people that have given themselves wholly to the eternal work of God. From an earthly standpoint the loss of five talented men seems like a waste, but as we look at the eternal we see five men who have laid up there treasures in heaven. After reading this book, I fully believe these men would accept the challenge again, even if they knew it would cost them their lives. This is how I would like my life to be characterized.

Tips for Temperance

Five Practical Thoughts on Self Control

Last night in youth group, we discussed the issue of temperance, or self control. This is definitely not something our culture is supporting us in, so how do we win the battle for self control? Here are five tips on establishing self control.

Tip #1 Pray for Self Control

I know at first this sounds cliche´, but it’s probably one of the most important steps you can take. In 2 Chronicles 16:11, David challenges us to “Seek the Lord and his strength, seek his face continually.” We must continually seek God, because we do not have the strength to establish self control in our lives.

Tip #2 Read God’s Word

I know what you’re thinking, heres another one of those “pastor answers,” but stay with me here. Have you ever read through the book of Proverbs? Do you know how many self control issues are covered in just this one book? Pride and humility are mentioned in Proverbs 16:19. Gossip is discouraged in Proverbs 16:28. The angry temper is addressed in Proverbs 16:32. The dangers of lust are articulated in Proverbs 6:23-26. Laziness is even tackled in Proverbs 26:14. The Word of God is filled with help in the area of temperance. We just have to be hearers and doers!

Tip #3 Set Goals

If you have read Philippians 3, it’s not hard to pick up on the objective of the apostle Paul. What are we pursuing? Are you pursuing a Christ-centered life? Establish goals to help you get there! Make those goals specific. Maybe your goal can be something as simple as going to bed at a decent hour so you can wake up to spend time in God’s Word. Or maybe your goal is something bigger that you need to accomplish. Either way, establish goals in your life and pursue them so that you can bring honor and glory to Christ in your life.

Tip #4 Seek Accountability

Another key to help with the development of temperance is to get someone else involved. Find someone you have a relationship with and who is following Christ and request for them to keep you accountable. Proverbs 27:17 says “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” Allow a godly friend or mentor to encourage you in the goals you have set to be more like Christ.

Tip #5 Protect Yourself 

One of the most important tips for temperance is to protect yourself from yourself. Romans 13:13-14 puts it this way, “Let us walk honestly, as in the day; not in rioting and drunkenness, not in chambering and wantonness, not in strife and envying. But put ye on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make not provision for the flesh, to fulfil the lusts thereof.” Many of our failures in self control can be brought back to the simple fact that we put ourselves in the position to fail. Usually, if you're on a diet, you don’t make up a plate of snacks and desserts and place them in an easily reached location. You stay away from those types of things so you are not tempted. This same principle is true whether you are dealing with lust, anger, gossip, or any other fleshly struggle. Don’t set yourself up for failure.

Do we really trust God?

“Trustfulness is based on confidence in God whose ways I do not understand; if I did, there would be no need for trust”

— Oswald Chambers

Yesterday in our Bible study, we observed the patience of David to wait for God’s timing to become king. During our discussion, we brought up how patiently waiting for God required a trust in God, even when we don’t understand His plan or His timing. The question to ponder is “Do we really trust God?” We read yesterday of the great verse of how Abraham followed God. “And he said, Blessed be the Lord God of my master Abraham, who hath not left destitute my master of his mercy and his truth: I being in the way, the Lord led me to the house of my master's brethren.” (Genesis 24:27) We are familiar with Proverbs 3:5-6, “Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.” We quote this passage genuinely, sincerely desiring to trust God with our lives, but we quickly find ourselves relying on our own wisdom. We support our conclusions to move ahead of God’s will by looking through our limited scope of knowledge. Abraham was guilty of this too! In Genesis 16, Abraham, one of the great examples of faith, and Sarah decided to “help” God, because from their limited wisdom, there was no way that God could keep His Word. This episode of lack of trust led to numerous difficulties in the life of Abraham and even generations afterwards. A couple of weeks ago, I was putting together some furniture in our living room. Shilyn asked if she could help, and Tavian volunteered to hinder progress. I explained to Shilyn what needed to be done and explained how she would have to really be listening to my instructions. At 5 years of age, she had a decent idea of what I desired to accomplish. I could ask her to hold this, or screw in this, and she would. Every once in awhile she would jump ahead in the building process, and I would have to bring her back to the step I was on, but she was genuinely trying to be helpful. Tavian, on the other hand, was a tornado of mayhem to our project. At a year and half, he did not comprehend what we desired to accomplish. He watched us use the screwdriver, and determined in his small scope of understanding that this screwdriver was the tool for everything. He tried to use it on the screen of the television, on the video game consoles, and even in his own ears. I’m sure Tavian desired to help and maybe even thought he was  helping, but since he did not understand the big picture, he slowed down progress. God desires to build our lives for His glory. We don’t always understand every detail, but if we are patient and trusting, we have His promise that He will direct our paths.

The Importance of Diligence

This week in our Sunday Morning Bible Study we observed David’s diligence. We defined diligence as a constant and earnest effort to accomplish what is undertaken. We humorously discussed the lack of diligence in the modern workplace. We’ve all observed, or maybe even experienced, the poor customer service by people that lack diligence. But many of us overlook the lack of diligence in our own lives. As I search the Word of God, I find great truths about being persistent and earnest in accomplishing what God has called me to do.  Proverbs 12:24 says, “The hand of the diligent shall bear rule: but the slothful shall be under tribute.”  Solomon wisely states that diligence is a key element in leadership. We may look at the phrase “bear rule” and think, I don’t have a desire to “bear rule” over anyone. Solomon is simply teaching a truth about leadership. I hope that you desire to be a godly leader even as a teenager. Our culture needs young people who are leaders that are passionately accomplishing goals that glorify our Savior. Here is one more example, Proverbs 22:29 says, “Seest thou a man diligent in his business? he shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before mean (of little importance) men.” I know you’re thinking, I don’t have a business! The word “business” here basically means his or her work. So, the Word of God practically explains to us that diligence is a cornerstone of a successful life. Do you desire to be successful? Remember our quote from Sunday, “There are no small or unimportant jobs to God.” Being faithful as a shepherd was just as important as being faithful as a king (Memory Verse: Psalm 78:70-71.) I have two challenges for you! First, take some time this week and search your Bible (or Bible app) for the word “diligent” and see for yourself what the Bibe says about it. Secondly, I challenge you to be diligent this week. This week “Whatsoever thy hand findeth to do, do it with thy might.” (Ecclesiastes 9:10)

Learning to know God

In our study of the Life of David on Sunday, we were looking at how David learned to know God.  It was exciting to hear the observations that you all made as we looked at Psalm 100. It still amazes me how many things we are told about God in just those five verses! My prayer would be that you as young people will learn to know God personally. Our culture has given us a perception of our God that is not even close to truth. If I were to ask you, “How do you get to know God?” Your answer would probably have something to do with prayer and/or Bible reading. And it should! Are you taking time to meditate on God’s Word and talk with Him in prayer? Don’t just take others opinions about God. Learn to know God yourself, like David did. As we saw on Sunday, it was one of the keys for David’s preparation for what God desired him to do in life. 

    A few years ago, my wife shared an interesting study with me. It was a study by one of the ladies from the Wilds Christian Camp. The study was entitled “What Do I Know About My God?” I want to challenge you to take a look at it. Here is a link to the PDF. I believe if we start to think this way, it will transform our Christian walk!

Are you an EXAMPLE?

Our series can be summed up like this:

Let no man despise (disregard; think against) thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word (something said; communication), in conversation (external appearances or actions; behavior), in charity (a choice to show sacrificial compassion and kindness to others), in spirit (an attitude that spreads throughout feelings or actions; state of mind regarding something), in faith (the agreement of my heart to the truth of what is declared by God, resting on His authority and integrity, without other evidence), in purity (freedom from guilt or defilement of sin). 

1 Timothy 4:12

Young People and Missions

Missions Conference - Give the Gospel

Why is a missions conference so important in the life of a young person?

I'm excited about this years missions conference. I know it changes our routines just a little bit, but I think we have a tremendous opportunity before us. The questions is are you taking advantage of this opportunity? How does missions conference fit into the life of a Christian teenager or young adult? Allow me to challenge you with some thoughts for missions conference.

Missions Conference expands our vision past ourselves.

Sometimes as Americans we forget about how blessed we really are. We are unhappy because we don't have a "new" outfit to wear to our special occasions or our iPod is "only a third generation." We get upset because our basketball socks don't have logos, or because our instagram posts only have two likes. (Don't think I'm just picking on young people, I struggle with the same carnal feelings.) Missions conference reminds me that there are people around the world with real struggles! These young people don't have food, clothing, or sometimes even families! This changes the perspective on my first world problems. The greatest tragedy is that some of the people in the missionary presentations have never heard the gospel. There are people in this world who have never heard of Jesus and do not have a copy of God's Word, and we don't even bother to read our Bibles or even bring them to church. As you sit through missions conference, remind yourself that God has truly blessed you! Remember there is a world outside of yours. So the next time you get despondent because you don't have or can't do, remember there are people in this world that don't have anything.

Missions Conference establishes that the gospel still works.

As we move through our weekly routines of youth group, school, and sometimes work, we must be challenged often that sharing the gospel is important! There are moments when we start to convince ourselves that the gospel is not as powerful as it was "back in the good old days." Paul said in Romans 1:16 "For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth; to the Jew first, and also to the Greek." I love sitting in missions conference and hearing the amazing stories of people being brought to a knowledge of the Savior. It's thrilling to hear of people in other cultures where lives are being changed because someone cared enough to bring them the gospel. The gospel still works! Every now and then, we have to be reminded of this. Missions conference brings me back to the importance of the gospel!

Missions Conference enables an opportunity to give.

Yes, you read that correctly! Missions conference gives you, as a young person, a chance to give. It's humorous, how sometimes we don't expect a teenager or young adult to give to the proclamation of the gospel. A teenage guy can brag about spending $20+ at McDonalds for food, but we can't give $5 to missions? On a youth group trip, a teenager will walk out of a convenience store with enough snacks to feed a small African village, but somehow we don't have the funds to give to foreign missions. Don't worry, I'm not trying to take all of your small amount of expendable income, but I do want us to be challenged to invest in what is eternal. Jesus issued the same challenge in Matthew 6:19-20, "Lay not up for yourselves treasures upon earth, where moth and rust doth corrupt, and where thieves break through and steal: but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust doth corrupt, and where thieves do not break through nor steal." Young person allow God to use you, no one is expecting you to give a million dollars. Missions Conference helps develop a heart that desires to invest in eternity.

So when you come into a service at missions conference, remember that this is not just extra weekly services, or a chance to watch videos in church. These will be the services that God will challenge you to focus on the eternal more than the temporal. I pray that God will use this missions conference in your lives as we seek to follow Him.

Tech-Free Bible Study

Almost everyone knows that I enjoy technology. (sometimes even a little too much) But today, we're going "old school" with five non-techie items you can use to help you study the Word of God.

1. A Bible

I know this sounds pretty obvious, but I think it needs to be discussed. I enjoy reading and studying the Bible on my iPad and myriad of other electronic devices, but I do believe it is important to have a physical copy of the Word of God. It amazes me how many young people do not own a Bible. Young person please invest in a good Bible. We spend a lot of money  on clothing, shoes, video games, and other personal interests. Why not invest money in a quality study Bible. If you don't know which one, ask your parents or another spiritual leader what they would recommend.

2. A Pen and Paper

I told you this list was old school.  A pen (unless you prefer a pencil) and paper are great tools for Bible Study, because they are versatile. Pen and paper can be used to take notes, keep a journal, or even create a prayer list. As you study the Word of God (which hopefully you do regularly), make notes of things that come up as you read. Write down things that encourage you, questions that come up, or even things that convict you (that may take up a lot of paper). Sometimes just writing things down impacts what we remember.

3. A Highlighter

Highlighters are an awesome way to make verses stand out in your Bible. Every now and then I will flip through my old Bibles and read verses that I have highlighted. It can be pretty encouraging to be reminded of Biblical truth. There are plenty of things you can highlight. Highlight the Romans Road, the promises of God, or even verses that challenge you to be a better Christian. Don't make your Bible look like someone spilled Kool-Aid on it, but feel free to highlight things that are helpful to you.

4. A Dictionary

One of the big excuses people make about studying the Bible is that they do not understand it. Some things would be easier to understand with a simple tool  like a dictionary. When you read and study the Word of God, don't skip over the words you do not understand and assume that you do understand. Grab a dictionary and put it to good use.

5. A Parent

Yep, they are not technological! They run on coffee and not batteries. Godly parents are huge assets  in your Bible study! God has given your parents the responsibility to instruct you in the Word of God. (Deuteronomy 6:7; Proverbs 22:6; Ephesians 6:4) If God has blessed you with parents that love the Lord, approach them about what you are studying in the Word of God. Your parents have a special insight into your life that no other spiritual leader has. Let them help you! Sadly, in the world we live in there are many young people who do not have such parents. If you do not have godly parents, find a pastor or godly adult that has Biblical wisdom.

Bible study is essential in the life of a young person! It is awesome that we live in an age where we have great technological advances that help us study the Bible. Sometimes though, it is the simple things that help us accomplish great things. Hopefully these things can help you as you seek to study God's Word.

Back to School

Thoughts for Back to School

It's  that time again! The end of summer is approaching. No more sleeping in till after noon. It's time to say hello to study and homework again! As you prepare for the new school year, here are some thoughts that hopefully will help you. We'll call them the  "ABCs of Back to School".

Appreciate Authority

The word "authority" seldom brings a smile to any young person's face. (Unless that authority is given over a younger sibling.) But authority is critical in the life of every individual.  The Bible commands us to obey the authorities placed in our lives. (Hebrews 13:17, Romans 13:1-7) As the school year begins, determine to appreciate authority. Remember the teachers, the principal, and the administration have been placed in your life for your benefit. No, they are not perfect, but neither are you. Decide now to respect and obey the authority God has placed in your life this year.

Build Relationships

We all know the main reason we go to school is to receive a quality education that will prepare us for life.  But it is also a great place to build relationships. And when I say relationships, I'm not talking about dating relationships, because in junior high and high school "ain't nobody got time for that." Establish working relationships with teachers and godly adults who will give you a godly perspective. Cultivate relationships with peers whether in classes or in other extracurricular activities. As you build those relationships remember "He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed." (Proverbs 13:20) Make sure as you build relationships at school, that they are also helping build your spiritual relationship.

Challenge Yourself

Every year of school brings new challenges. There are new teachers, new classes, and a new set of pressures. Accept the challenge! if you play sports, be willing to rise to the next level. If you play an instrument, be willing to stretch yourself. If you have a subject you struggle in, pray about it and strive to work harder. This school year make Colossians 3:23-24 your goal. "And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ."

I hope you'll consider these thoughts as you begin you're new school year!

People receiving their first Bible

Preventing a Mighty Work

As we look to our special meetings, there is a chance that we can miss out on what God has for us! In Mark 6, Jesus desires to do a great work in His hometown of Nazareth. The people there missed out on seeing mighty things  done by Christ because of their unbelief! Are we limiting God in your spiritual lives?

Mark 6: 1-6

 And he went out from thence, and came into his own country; and his disciples follow him. 

And when the sabbath day was come, he began to teach in the synagogue: and many hearing him were astonished, saying, From whence hath this man these things? and what wisdom is this which is given unto him, that even such mighty works are wrought by his hands? 

Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary, the brother of James, and Joses, and of Juda, and Simon? and are not his sisters here with us? And they were offended at him. 

But Jesus said unto them, A prophet is not without honour, but in his own country, and among his own kin, and in his own house. 

And he could there do no mighty work, save that he laid his hands upon a few sick folk, and healed them. 

And he marvelled because of their unbelief. And he went round about the villages, teaching. 

 1. The peope were astonished at His Word, but did not act upon it! Mark 6:2

The citizens of Nazareth were intrigued by the Words of Christ, but they did not want to make a change. They saw the miraculous works of Christ, yet they still would not believe. Many times during revival services or special meetings, The Word of God is eloquently proclaimed and the blessings of the Lord are plainly displayed, but there is no change. Nazareth sat under the preaching of the greatest Preacher that ever lived and enjoyed the preaching,but they were not willing to act on it.

 2. They confined Christ to their knowledge of Him.-Mark 6:3a

The people that gathered around assumed they knew everything about Jesus. "Is not this the carpenter, the son of Mary..." They heard the Word's of Christ, but discredited it because they limited Christ to their knowledge of Him. Many times we miss a mighty work because we limit God. We use phrases like "I've heard this before"or "I don't go that far with it" or "I don't believe I need all that," but we must take God at His word and allow the Holy Spirit to guide us. We must let the Word of God rule in our hearts and change our lives! Don't confine God's Word to your knowledge, but confine your knowledge to God's Word!

3. The people became offended and opposed His Words! -Mark 6:3b

 The final roadblock is offense. The people of Nazareth heard God's Word and became offended. "Who does he think he is?" "It's none of his business how I live my life!" They rejected the One who could help them the most. Sadly, many Christians have fallen by the wayside because they were offended by the Word of God. If God's Word is being preached and you are offended, there is a spiritual issue(s) that need to be addressed! If you desire to see God do a mighty work be tenderhearted towards His Word.

Let it never be said of us "And he could there do no mighty work.." (Mark 6:5a)

My Old Bible

Paul told Timothy in 2 Timothy 3:14-17,

But evil men and seducers shall wax worse and worse, deceiving, and being deceived. But continue thou in the things which thou hast learned and hast been assured of, knowing of whom thou hast learned them; And that from a child thou hast known the holy scriptures, which are able to make thee wise unto salvation through faith which is in Christ Jesus. All scripture is given by inspiration of God, and is profitable for doctrine, for reproof, for correction, for instruction in righteousness: That the man of God may be perfect, throughly furnished unto all good works. 

We have been studying 2 Timothy for a couple of weeks (okay maybe more than a couple), and I hope we are starting to understand the importance of the Word of God. The other day I was looking through the Bible I had when I was a teenager (a long long time ago). I read through verses that I had highlighted and quotes that I had written down. I even laughed at myself for putting Bugs Bunny stickers in the cover! But as I looked through my old Bible, I was hit by the awesome opportunity that I received of learning the Truth of the Word of God early in life. If you have a Christian home, a great church, and a copy of the Scripture, take full advantage of the opportunity God has given you. One day you'll look back with a smile, thanking God for the impact His Word had on your life!

The Progressiveness of Sin via "The Biblical Illustrator"

A gentleman was walking with a friend one day through his beautiful grounds, when they came to a fine large tree which was decayed to the very core. “That tree,” said the proprietor, “was destroyed by a single worm. A short time since it was as vigorous as any of its companions, when one day a woodworm was discovered forcing its way under the outer bark. A naturalist who was at that time my guest remarked on seeing it that if left alone it would ultimately kill the tree. It seemed so improbable, that the worm was suffered to remain. Gradually it bored its way into the fibre of the tree, slowly but surely doing its work. The following summer the tree shed its leaves much earlier than usual, and in the second season it was a dead, worthless thing. The worm which seemed so very insignificant had found its way to the heart of the once noble tree and destroyed its life.” How forcibly do we see this same thing illustrated in the common walks of every-day life. A young man is persuaded by his companions to take his first glass of wine. It seems like a little thing, but it is the beginning of a course of degradation and eternal shame. The clerk in the bank appropriates a few shillings of the funds entrusted to his care. One step leads to another, until at last he is arrested and cast into prison as a defaulter. A boy begins to practise little deceits at school or at home which, unless discovered and checked, will make him a base and unprincipled man. Such is the destructive power of little sins when the continued indulgence in them is practised.