Whether it is in person, on the internet, or in a text, speech is one of the biggest battles for us as Christian young people. The Word of God is very clear on the dangers of improper speech.
Here are five areas of speech to stay away from:
1. False Speech
Society is full of liars and deceivers! The news is filled with political, corporate, and even religious leaders caught in lies and scandals. The dangers of false speech should be evident to every Christian. "Lying lips are abomination to the Lord: but they that deal truly are his delight." -Proverbs 12:22
2. Froward Speech
The word froward means willfully contrary; not easily managed. James says "If any man among you seem to be religious and bridleth not (does not control or curb) his tongue... this man's religion is vain (empty, worthless). (James 1:26) It is imperative that a Christian learn to manage the things that come out of his or her mouth to maintain a proper Christian testimony. Proverbs 4:24 says "Put away from thee a forward mouth!"
3. Foolish Speech
It is amazing how much of today's "humor" is really foolishness. Most modern movies, music, and other forms of media find it humorous to make light of standards and values. This trend has many Christians being entertained by things that are senseless and meaningless. Proverbs 15: 2 says "The tongue of the wise useth knowledge aright (well, successfully): but the mouth of fools poureth out foolishness. Christians should strive to talk about things that are sensible and not senseless!
4. Flattering Speech
It has been said that flattery will get you nowhere. Sadly, many have tried to use it as a vehicle to success. Paul told the Thessalonians that he sought to bring glory to God and not to men, so he did not use flattering words. (1 Thessalonians 2:4-5) Christian be genuine!
5. Filthy Speech
The Apostle Paul challenged the Ephesians to "have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them. For it is a shame even to speak of those things which are done of them in secret." (Ephesians 5:11.12) It is terrible to live in a world where perversion is glorified, but it is worse when Christians speak pleasurably about such perversion. Christian "let no corrupt (rotten,bad) communication proceed out of your mouth!